It took some troubled times many years ago to learn to relax.
What does it mean to relax. It means know matter how bad things are remember there is always somebody worse off than you. It may be a relative a friend or even somebody you do not even know. If you need a reminder of this go to the web and look at the news. Any problem can be resolved.
If you are worried then take care of the problem now, make that call you have been putting off. Start the ball rolling.You will be surprised how much better you will feel just for making that initial call. No matter what the problem is, it may not be solved on the first call, but keep trying . Be aware that in order to get the problem solved you must be ready to give something if you want something. Compromise will get the situation solved no matter if it is a creditor or a friend.The sun comes up every morning and there is always going to be another day. Nothing is that bad that it can not be remedied
If it is somebody that is causing your problem the first thing you must do is consider the source. Some people are just not worth messing up any part of your day. This is part of my three strike theory.
1. If somebody is giving you a hard time and really makes you mad give it twenty hours before you react. They may of had a bad day and they were taking it out on you.
2. If the problem is still there the next day then you need to approach them to discuss what ever it is bothering them. If they are still unresponsive then to the last step
3. Go to them with a solution. If they are still unresponsive it is time to move on.
If you follow these suggestions then you will never have to look back and say if I only would have tried this or that. The three strike rule goes for anything you have to make a decision on. Keep in mind you do not have to keep getting hit over the head with a baseball bat, trying once may be enough and it is time to move on.
